our son Oisin 28 has been with a partner for the last 5yrs, they have 2 small boys aged 4 & 5,,,,,,he was always very difficult and went off with bands and the drug scene in dublin,,, he connected with Abbhi,, in 2014,, we know her since she was a child of 5,,, she had no father present and her mother was very disturbed, she and her sister Nitai were very neglected as kids,, both of them suffered sexual, emotional and some physical abuse...Abbhi went out to do prostitution when she reached 14 or 15, she also became an alcoholic...we prayed for her for years never expecting that she would become Oisin's partner..
This 5years have been a living nightmare,,,we have prayed and prayed and stormed the gates of heaven and from time to time it seems to settle down but she always goes back to her old ways,,, Oisin has stayed with her, we asked him to leave, to get counselling but she controls him utterly, she even convinced him that he is ok with her being a prostitute. She seems to control him completely,, ive never seen him like this before, he has to double check every word he speaks and every action with her and she does as she pleases..
we prayed and prayed and tolerated and waited and waited but we are now at the end,,,i have even prayed for her to die to get him free of her,,,,,she has led him in very evil ways,,,, he takes good care of the kids but he takes it out on them especially Danta , the 5 yr old....
we just tried to constantly hand it over to the Lord, as it was destroying us and do our best for him and the kids but now she started going to Dublin at weekends to do a jewelry market,, he is left at home with the kids for the whole weekend with no car,,, I went one weekend and he had been so very angry with Danta, the child was crying and said he wished his dad was dead.
We feel that she is going back to prostitution now as well while in Dublin,, she seems to have a lot of money, he wont talk to us,, he has shut us out completely all these years, we had to beg him,,we stood with him, supported him all the way, we told him we are in this together,, we handed him out so much money these 5 years,, she got angry if he didnt get money from us, we finally were able to stop this in the lockdown..
.he destroyed our business trailer 3 years ago and nearly caused a terrible accident with it,,,we are at our wits end.... the house belongs to her,, she got the money from her prostitution,,, she can kick him out anytime,,,the kids will suffer, ,she will bring in other dangerous men and oisin is very attached to the kids,,,,ive seen other guys around commit suicide when the partner left and took the kids,,,, please God help us,,,deliver him from her influence and take care of the kids,,, please help us all in this impossible situation.. thank you Lord