A new year but the same old uncaring, selfishness and narcissism from my 62 year old mother Martina King in Derry, Northern Ireland. Today her selfish, cruel and narcissistic streak came to the fore, as I tried to help her by fixing her TV when a fault occurred. All of my help, all of my effort even though I have a weak heart, she had to criticise, had to complain, moaned, and then blamed everything back on me. I am her son, but she always brings it back to her. Narcissism at its worst. I can’t cope. You better pray for an immediate turnaround, I can not cope with this. I will abandon her if she pushes me too far.